Non-Naive Trust Dance

The Non-Naive Trust Dance is a framework for making sense of all interactions between learning systems. Learning systems includes organisms, such as me (the person writing this sentence) and you (the person reading it) and dogs, cats, etc... and also includes bureaucracies, families, movements, and even worldviews or ideologies.

By understanding how trust is built and learning how to respect distrust, you can come to more smoothly and sanely navigate many kinds of situations:

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Here are links to some other NNTD writings:

Here's my NNTD playlist on YouTube, featuring some 3-5 minute videos on specific topics, as well as some longer dialogues.

For how to apply the NNTD principles to building trust in a group (a co-living community, a team, a family, or other project) check out my manual How we get there.

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Hi, I'm Malcolm Ocean! The non-naive trust dance is not so much something I invented as discovered. And there are lots of related frameworks, theories, etc. But I collect mine under this particular name, for convenience. More on the general principle and the value of having different names for different frameworks here.

Best to reach me on twitter at @Malcolm_Ocean, although I less frequently engage on Facebook as well.

Want help sorting out some trust challenge, internal or interpersonal? Learn more and book a coaching session with me here

Looking for my Mating Dance course on how to do courtship and romance in a way that respects your own trust system? See mating.nonnaivetrust.dance.

Want to interview me on your podcast? I would love to talk to you. DM me on twitter or email podcast at this domain.